The anxiety of public life when everywhere feels off limits

Our country has grown so divisive that a new fear has been unlocked for many of us. The fear of getting shot.  There are people out there ch...

What suicidal ideations feel like to me

I lead a pretty good life, and I’m a decently optimistic person. So, you may be surprised to find out that I think about suicide pretty regu...

Why saying 'No' feels so hard — and why it's necessary for your mental health

If you asked me what I least expected since becoming a mother, it’s not the sleepless nights or the diabolical diapers. One thing I still ha...

Post-weaning depression: What I didn’t know about quitting breastfeeding

After emerging from the newborn trenches, I was surprised that it wasn’t until now – nine months after giving birth – that I’m struggling wi...

Breaking the cycle: How jealousy and social comparison can affect your mental health

When you are envious over what someone else has, this can affect your self-esteem and potentially lead to anxiety and depression. Guest blog...

How Mother's Day reminds us how precious our lives are

Mental health and suicide awareness have always been important causes to me. But, becoming a new mom has given new meaning to how precious l...

Cuts to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline will affect everyone, especially LGBTQ+ youth

I have a core memory of being in youth group when a speaker asked us to close our eyes before saying, “Raise your hand if you’ve ever contem...

How to combat travel-related anxiety

Earlier this month, I went on a two-week vacation from Michigan to Florida, which meant leaving snow, gloom and temperatures in ...

Practice self-compassion when you make a mistake

Forgetting your phone is in your back pocket and dropping it in the toilet. Running over a curb and popping a tire. Locking your keys inside...

It's OK to grieve the loss of an animal family member

I've heard other parents try and commandeer the terms "Mom" and "Dad," acting like pet parents don't deserve the...

Postpartum changes aren't easy for anyone

Whether you believe in God or the Big Bang Theory, we can all agree that reproduction is necessary for the continuation of the h...

How mood disorders and physical discomfort can affect bond with unborn baby

There’s a famous saying that goes, “Women become mothers the moment they know they’re pregnant. Men become fathers the moment th...

Pregnancy and Mental Illness: Building a new brain while trying not to lose my own

Wow, so the last time I wrote a blog was four months ago – when I talked about doing Dry January ! And while everything I wrote was true, I ...